“Good people don’t go to Heaven.” I said these words to my friend, Matt, back in high school as we discussed the reality of life, eternity and religion. Matt’s mother had passed away a few months prior after an intense battle with an aggressive and rare illness. Her death left my friend in a state of brokenness beyond anything he had experienced. That’s huge, because my friend’s life had been far from perfect. In and out of the foster care system, Matt had gone family to family, facing the ongoing pain of rejection. He’d made many poor choices early in his teen years that had landed him time in a juvenile detention facility. He lost his foster father, the man who truly treated him as a son, a few years before and to now lose the woman he considered “mom” was almost unbearable. Death, especially with loved ones, has an interesting way of exposing life’s deepest questions and shaking the very core of our belief system. My friend’s greatest concern was whether or not his mom made it to Heaven.


Matt asked, “Do you think she made it; do you think I’ll see her again?” I responded by asking  my friend to tell me about his mom’s salvation experience. He replied, “We never really talked about that. She didn’t like to discuss religion.” The demeanor on his face went from bad to worse as my question kindled further anxiety. In fear, he tried to drive out any uncertainty by saying, “I know I’ll see her again. She wouldn’t just leave me like this. She’s in Heaven and one day we’ll be back together.”

As gently as possible I asked my friend, “What makes you so sure you’ll see her again?” His response embodied what I fear to be a far too common belief among today’s society. “She was a good person,” he stated through tear-filled eyes. Pure devastation and heartbreak overshadowed his countenance. Matt longed for assurance that this wasn’t “goodbye” but rather “see you later”, and I of all people so wished to fill that need; but I could not. Goodness does not constitute salvation. Many are basing their eternal destiny on good works and hoping they’ve done much more good than bad so they will “make it”. The myth we must debunk is that our goodness leads to heaven. No one has ever made it to Heaven for being a good person. You cannot be saved by goodness; salvation only comes through surrender. It is faith in Christ alone that results in salvation. While I undoubtedly believe that a genuine born-again experience always results in a life of holiness and good works, it is not works that saves you nor keeps you.


For the unbeliever the challenge is attempting to attain salvation by their own goodness. For the Believer, the challenge is trying to keep salvation by their own goodness.  It wasn’t your goodness that saved you and it won’t be your goodness that keeps you. Ephesians 2:8-9 declares “For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.” The reality is, your goodness can never be good enough. There is only one solution that results in salvation and that is faith in Jesus Christ.


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I routinely take time before the Lord to do an inward search. Paul in his second letter to the church at Corinth said, “Examine yourselves as to whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Do you not know yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you?—unless indeed you are disqualified.” An inward search is a healthy practice which I believe will help to avoid the pitfall of trusting in self. I’ve come to realize the more I trust in God, the more He empowers me, by His grace, to accomplish the things I could never achieve on my own.


My challenge to you is this: Ask God to reveal every area in your life where you are trusting in self rather than in His ability. Make this a routine practice and allow God to take you from a place of independence (depending on self) into a place of total dependence upon Him.


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